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SOLVING ISSUES WITH YOUR PARTNER

There’s no relationship on earth that is all
perfect. Every relationship has its own problems, ups and downs.

There is no perfect relationship or marriage. All it entails is two imperfect people coming together and making a something beautiful built on love, friendship, loyalty and understanding.

Today you can all be happy, laughing, and praising each other and tomorrow something you didn’t see coming happens and
you fight, abuse and hate each other. Yeah, such things are inevitable. But what matters most when such things happen, is how you deal with your issues as a couple in a mature way and still come out and say “I love you” to each other in the end.
So, before you always think of dumping
your partner because of a misunderstanding or
disagreement you have with him/her always think twice, act mature, put your pride aside and fix your issues well if you still have
feelings for each other.

Walking out or staying away from home after disagreement is not ideal. The devil can use that opportunity and cause a great calamity. Remember the story of Eve in the bible.

Choosing to cook separately or sleep separately won’t solve anything, it will only prolong the issue.

Being bitter for days and weeks will worsen the situation, train your heart to forgive your partner and let go.
*Communicate
*Forgive
*Pray about it.
*Work on those things your partner is complaining about.
*Work on your weaknesses.
*Learn to say “I’m sorry”
*Kill your pride
*Take corrections
*Talk less

Keeping malice with your partner is not good. Go and fix it now.

Marriage is a school we never graduate from…………..

1.Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone’s past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

2.Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

3.Every marriage has different levels of success. Don’t compare your marriage with any one else. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient and also work hard.

4.Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

5.Marriage is not a contract. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.